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By Chandrama Anderson

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i...  (More)

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Couples: Initiators and Implementors
Oct 12, 2017 5:36 pm
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I've noticed an issue between couples regarding one partner who is more an initiator or more an implementor. Or in some relationships, one is the initiator... More
Couples: Avocados and Milk
Oct 5, 2017 8:17 am
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A client of mine sent this joke to me (thank you!), and I want to share it and briefly comment on it:

     A wife asks her husband, "Could... More
Couples: Crisis/Gratitude, Personal and Large Scale
Sep 28, 2017 2:18 pm
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Focus on gratitude in your relationship. Every day tell each other three things you’re grateful for about each other. Some can be what s/he did, while others... More
Attraction to a Person Outside Your Relationship
Sep 21, 2017 7:41 am
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“It was not [a summons . . . it was simply a desire to escape from what I had.”
--Rachel Cask, Outline

I’ve taken Rachel’s words out... More
Legacy
Sep 14, 2017 9:19 am
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Last Friday I wrote the following: None of us know how long we have in this life with the people we love. Be sure you tell them you love them—regularly. Get... More
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