By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Couple’s Tone and Body Language
Jul 7, 2014 7:29 am
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Last time I wrote about observing couples' communication through tone and body language. I want to clarify that we can not assume what is going on from what we see.... More
Jul 11, 2014 9:04 am
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I have been trying to rescue a kitten from my yard this week. It reminds me of couples wanting love and connection from one another, and yet not able... More
See Me. Hear Me. Don’t Fix Me.
Aug 22, 2014 1:42 pm
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It seems so simple. But to see, listen and not fix is harder than to reassure or apologize.
We need to know our spouse gets us. We are competent, intelligent... More
What is the new couple's paradigm these days?
Jul 16, 2014 11:00 am
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On TV and in movies one seems to see a lot of serial relationships. Almost every character is dealing with an ex, and kids, and the incumbent problems.
Yank the Scab Off
May 27, 2014 8:36 am
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Sunday morning, partly cloudy in Portland. Sitting in a cafe having just had a Caffe macchiato.
The art on the walls are life size pregnant women made of fabric.... More