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Couple's Net

By Chandrama Anderson

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i...  (More)

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Parents Texting with Kids in the Car
Aug 29, 2014 7:58 am
Comments: 8 | Views: 1,069

I see parents texting with kids in the car more and more often now, and it scares me.

I am going to be blunt here: Do you want to risk killing your kids, or make... More
. . . People will never forget how you made them feel.
Aug 26, 2014 1:09 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 1,514

"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."

- Maya Angelou


If... More
See Me. Hear Me. Don’t Fix Me.
Aug 22, 2014 1:42 pm
Comments: 2 | Views: 2,315

It seems so simple. But to see, listen and not fix is harder than to reassure or apologize.

We need to know our spouse gets us. We are competent, intelligent... More
Couples: Parallel Play or Interactive Play?
Aug 18, 2014 8:58 am
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Young children play alone, enjoying a box as much as the gift that came in that box. Other children may be present, but each child is focused on his or her own activity.... More
Kids and Marital Satisfaction
Aug 12, 2014 4:43 pm
Comments: 12 | Views: 3,423

"More than a hundred studies show that marital satisfaction falls off a cliff after the birth of the first child and doesn't get much better until the last child... More
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